The (Updated) Right Guy

Dear Universe,

Have discussed this with Bunny, and we thought we needed to send you
an updated list of traits in our prospective life partners, whom I
trust we are meeting very very soon.

(1) someone who love me irrevocably; someone whom I love back
(2) someone who is loyal and open, honest and faithful towards me;
someone who supports me no matter what, who will be a good, generous
partner and friend
(3) someone who is sexually compatible with me, whom I want, who wants
me, who finds me attractive and vice versa
(4) someone who is constant and committed in his love and caring for
me, who wants to have a stable relationship with me
(5) someone whom I find intelligent and funny and interesting to talk
to, someone who finds me witty and funny and interesting and
intelligent as well. Someone with whom I can discuss most things
(6) someone who knows himself, is a successful human being, and works
on being the best he can be in life, in work and personal life, but
who understands that life is a balance of work and play. He would
spend time working on a happy relationship with me
(7) someone who likes to travel as much as I do, who is more than able
financially to do so and is generous with bringing me travelling
(8)someone I can live with, laugh with, be myself with, make a home
with, sleep with, create a life with, be a family with, enjoy
adventures with, have fun with
(9) someone who has clean habits, hobbies and lifestyle, someone who
is hygenic and smells nice
(10) someone who generally gets along with and likes my family and
close friends, who has friends and family that I generally like and
get along with
(11) someone I connect with, bond with spiritually, emotionally,
physically, mentally
(12) someone who accept me, of my way of looking of the world, someone
whom respects me, someone I respect
(13) someone who will face all that life brings our way with me,
experience all the good and the excitement and the wonderful, as well
as the challenges
(14)someone who is financially secure, someone who likes animals
(15) someone who makes me happy

The Right Man For Me

Dear Universe
Given some thought to what I want in my life partner and have penned them down here for you to make it all happen (soon, please). He will be:

1. Someone who understands me and loves me deeply and constantly and is committed to me and wants to have a stable, loving, happy and lasting relationship with me; and is someone I love deeply and will commit to.
2. Someone who is sexually compatible with me and we are good in bed together.
3. Someone who is intelligent and mature and I can have interesting conversations with and who inspires me to be a better person.
4. Someone who is honest, loyal and faithful and who I can trust; and trusts me.
5. Someone who is funny and witty and who makes me laugh; and who I can be silly and laugh a lot with.
6. Someone who is financially responsible, has a stable job and high income and and will provide me with a comfortable lifestyle, and pay for all my holidays.
7. Someone who is secure about himself, generous, kind, loving and patient with me; and he will enjoy taking care of me and will pamper me.
8. Someone who enjoys traveling and is a good traveling companion; and we will enjoy traveling together and will travel often.
9. Someone who is balanced and successful in life, has a positive attitude; who will work towards the same life goals as me.
10. Someone who is good looking and taller than me, who I am attracted to physically, emotionally, and mentally; and he to me.
11. Someone who gets along with my family and friends; who my family and friends will approve of; and who has family and friends that I will get along with and who will approve of me.
12. Someone I respect and am proud of; and he will respect and be proud of me too.
13. Someone who is healthy and active, and has a clean and good lifestyle.
14. A good person, partner and friend; someone I can live with, sleep with, make a life with, and be a family with; who wants to start a family with me.
15. Someone I can truly be myself with; and is supportive of me, loves me and accepts me for who I am; who I accept for who he is.
16. Someone I can enjoy the excitement and adventure that life has to offer with; and face all the good and all the challenges together with me.
17. Someone who makes me happy; and who is happy to be with me.


Thanks! xoxo

This Will Have To Do For Now

Dear Universe

Help me to find that balance that I need in my life to be happy and well adjusted. To be content. To enjoy life. To accept situations beyond my control. To know what I want. To love.


Thanks! xoxo

In the meantime..

Dear Universe,

While waiting for us to figure out what it is we want exactly in a life partner (gotta make sure that there are no loopholes yah), please let me and LGG just be happy all the time. For us to let go of past relationships, and move on and be full of joy once again. :)

And then give us the brains to know what kind of guys would be right for us.

Thanks! xoxo

This is why we aren't lawyers

Errrm. When we asked to fall in love, we apparently didn't specify that we want commitment in feelings, that we want passion and laughter and constancy in equal measure. Bonding with our partners in such a way that the fires of love are kept burning brightly, indefinitely.

Well we do. Consider this is our addition to our request before. We're now rethinking our life requests in general (Our apologies for this heh). Will get back to you after our month-long hiatus from ourselves....

Wishes for 2011. Well maybe not just 2011....

Dear Universe, We decided to make our own list of places we want to see. Why use another person's list? Well at least that was what we thought till we actually came up with our very own, and realised how boliao we were. But. They are our dreams. So pfft to anyone who says we have nothing better to do.

So here it is...

• Go to galapagos island and ride on a giant turtle


• See the wildebeest migrate on the plains of Tanzania. Take some NatGeo worthy shots.


• Ride on those dog sleds in erm some cold snow-filled country. Alaska?


• Visit at least one country with a name that ends with -stan. Gorge self on beluga (thats just Ching)


• See the Northern lights while lying on the snow


• Live on one of the Greek islands. Pick olives.


• Stay in a meditation retreat. My pick is at the Western Ghats. But anywhere can la.


• Go to Israel and actually get your passport chopped


• Stay in a winery and stomp on grapes. Have beautiful meals every evening with gorgeous wines to match.


• Pull a tapioca plant from it's roots in some farm.


• Eat pasta in Italy


• Go to Ladakh and visit that huge glacier. Meet the military there and try and persuade them to give us their cool shades.


• Travel round the Himalayas completely, see all the cities surrounding these breathtaking mountains


• Visit the Silk Road, starting with Xinjiang.


• Sit in an igloo and have a hot drink


• Gallop across a plain on a horse. Must be a PLAIN and it has to be a GALLOPing pace. Think Liv Tyler in Lord of the Rings.


• See whalesharks, mola mola, mantras and that sardine run. All at a go, so we don't waste time.


• Have the biggest fattest cigar in Havana, and wash it down with a sip of cognac


• Wander the Annapurna range


• Hum that silly tetris song while walking around St Petersburg


• Go to New Orleans to stalk Anne Rice. Ask her why she gave Lestat a name that sounds so unsexy


• See Troy in Turkey. Oh and find out if turkeys actually some from. LOL


• See the smallest volcano in the world in the Philippines. Summit it and put a BIG-ASS sign like those idiots do when they summit a mountain.


• Relax at a beautiful beach at the Seychelles.


• Visit the Sequoia forests in California. Live in one of those trees


• Stay in a houseboat in Kerala


• Travel around Laos.


• Smoke weed legally in amsterdam

• Go to Georgia, the one near Azerbaijan, not in the US

LOL it's been awhile but

yes, it's time to ask for great sex again. For all who write here. And yes separately.