Tuesday, December 29, 2009

Dear Universe

May all my loved ones have happy Nows, from this moment and every day of their lives. Thanks!

XOXOXO

Wednesday, December 16, 2009

Positive Thoughts

Remind us to think positive thoughts while we salt and soda ourselves hehehe.

Remind us to think positive thoughts always. Cos whatever may have been negative is no more. Only good stuff remains.

Monday, December 14, 2009

countdown

to a better BETTER year!

Wednesday, December 2, 2009

LOL ok to show we're really not greedy

(7) everyone else will have a great year too.

Wishlist for 2010

Dear Universe,

We decided not to be so greedy and only ask for 6 things for 2010 (for now at least hahaha):

(1) bon gets free booze
(2) wen bonks d
(3) we make rasmalai
(4) we get to go to ladakh and tibet
(5) freeair tickets for both of us
(6) we get raises


Thanks! xoxo

Tuesday, November 24, 2009

And Some More

That whatever happens, I’ll be smiling when I do kick the proverbial bucket. Hehehe.

Monday, November 23, 2009

I Also Want

Since we're copying each other, here's some from Wen's list that I really like too. Copying word for word, because I'm lazy.
  • Have a house that's surrounded by humungous mountains and gorgeous greenery. Where the sunrise seems so near you can touch it.
  • Fall head over heels in love. Stay there.
  • Jump from a plane with a parachute. What's it called? <<>

Since Bon Did This & I'm a Copycat

Why do they call it a bucket list? It's just sounds, well, so small. Like you can only have a list of ten. How about a tub list? Hmm seems a teeny bit greedy. So bucket it is. I'll limit my travel bits to just ONE. That ought to bring the list down to.....

  • Go to the Galapagos Island and have a chat with them giant turtles. Maybe one will let me have a ride!
  • Get a dog. While this may seem like a very easy task, it requires one to get their life in order, so you can keep said pup alive, content and happy. So. I don't have one yet.
  • Have a house that's surrounded by humungous mountains and gorgeous greenery. Where the sunrise seems so near you can reach up and touch it.
  • Fall head over heels in love. Stay there. Cos when you fall, it's best to just lie there till you catch your breath. And who would want to catch their breath when it's run away for such a good reason?
  • Get to that wondrous meditative state where you can just be happy. For more than a minute at a go.
  • Be able to teach ashtanga if I so choose. Do them headstands for more than 50 breaths.
  • Cook a meal worthy of a michelin star chef, for the ones I love. Plated to perfection.
  • Open a bookstore filled with books I like to read
  • Jump from a plane with a parachute. What's it called?
  • Write a book that actually gets published
So that's my ten. Ahem. Sidenote: apparently the komodo dragons on the Galapagos Island are hunters. Who will hunt me down, says Bon. So good thing this is a bucket list. And maybe I do that last. LOL.

My To Do List (also cross posted in my personal blog lol)

What do I want to accomplish in this lifetime? So here goes, my list. Including the silly stuff.

- travel extensively. Lol ok this is quite vague. Naturally, if I had the opportunity to travel to every country in the world, I would. (Alright, I'll list 'em out.)

- travel to Tibet. There's something about the Himalayas that just draws us to keep going back. Hopefully, my citizenship application goes through and I'll be able to go next year.

- backpack around Europe, alone. This was supposed to be my grand holiday for 2011, as a birthday present to my 30 year old self. I think everyone should try traveling alone at least once in their life. I've not worked out the logistics for the Europe backpacking trip yet though, and knowing me, it'll probably be largely unplanned.

- see snow. I've never seen snow! But apparently snowflakes aren't as magical as the movies make them out to be. Lol.

- travel to the US. Honestly, the States isn't really a country that I yearn to go. In fact, if it wasn't for the fact that my sister is moving there, it wouldn't even be so high up on the list. Too many other interesting countries to visit.

- travel to some country that ends with -stan or something like that. You know, Kazakhstan, Uzbekistan etc. I think it'd be fun.

- eventually travel to Japan (haha and all the other countries I've not been to before)

- make ketchup. I've made mayonnaise, butter, kaya, paneer, and I'm pretty sure a lot more other things from scratch. How hard can it be to make ketchup?

- wear a white wedding dress for my second wedding. Haha well first I'd have to meet someone and want to get married again, but I missed out on the white wedding dress experience the first time round. I think I'll be more involved when it comes to planning my second wedding. Lol.

- ride a horse and gallop across the countryside. Not trotting around in circles or being led by someone across the beach. I want the real deal.

- live on my own. Interestingly, I've never lived on my own before. Need to work out the finances though.

- work and live overseas. It's going to be such an experience to live overseas, to immerse yourself in the culture of another country. This will probably be a hard one for me, seeing how it took me 6 years to apply for my citizenship. How am I going to settle any of the paperwork needed to get the necessary visas and stuff? Lol.

- buy property. At least have a home to call my own.

- pull out a tapioca by it's roots. And if I get the chance, carrots and potatoes too. Lol.

- have a pet snake and a puppy. (Not necessarily at the same time). I've owned quite a number of rather bizarre pets, the weirdest one being a snapping alligator turtle (or was it the Madagascar hissing roaches? Hmm) , and somehow I've always been oddly fascinated by reptiles. And yes, I know a puppy is not a reptile. Lol.

- dive and see 1. a whale shark 2. manta rays 3. mola mola 4. barracuda tornado 5. hammerheads. Actually, I'd just like to pick up diving once again. It's been too long!

- reproduce and have little bonbons. According to Kumar, the leaf reader, I'll have 2 kids. Yay!

Hehehehe I'm sure there are more. Shall think about it and add on if they come to mind. *grin*

Sunday, November 22, 2009

Fa La La La La

Christmas gift suggestions:

To your enemy, forgiveness. To an opponent, tolerance. To a friend, your heart. To a customer, service. To all, charity. To every child, a good example. To yourself, respect.

Oren Arnold

In 2010

we're going to be happier than we are already *everyone add their version of happiness here*

Thursday, November 19, 2009

Life Handbook

1. Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
2. Don't have negative thoughts or things you cannot control.
Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment.
3. Don't over do. Keep your limits.
4. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
5. Don't waste your precious energy on gossip.
6. Dream more while you are awake.
7. Envy is a waste of time You already have all you need.
8. Forget issues of the past. Don't remind your partner with
his/her
mistakes of the past. That will ruin your present happiness.
9. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don't hate
others.
10. Make peace with your past so it won't spoil the present.
11. No one is in charge of your happiness except you.
12. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn.
Problems
are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.
13. Smile and laugh more.
14. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.

15. Call your family often.
16. Each day give something good to others.
17. Forgive everyone for everything.
18. Spend time with people over the age of 70 &
under the
age of 6.
19. Try to make at least three people smile each day.
20. What other people think of you is none of your business.
21. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your
family and friends will. Stay in touch.
22. Do the right thing!
23. Always speak the truth even if it leads to your death.
24. GOD heals everything.
25. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
26. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
27. The best is yet to come.
28. When you awake alive in the morning, thank GOD for it.
29. Your Inner most is always happy. So, be happy

30. I love Edward and Edward loves me as much muahahhahahhahha

Monday, November 16, 2009

Paneer-makers? Hehehee

Here is a test to find whether your mission on earth is finished: If you're alive it isn't. - Richard Bach

Sunday, November 15, 2009

Of deadlines whooshing past us

AND. I need to write my travel article. Pronto. NEED discipline and the muse to hit right about now.

XOXO

Oh yeah

Sigh. PLEASE let the boy toe the line and just make me happy. Hehehe.

超级无敌阳光美少女!!

Always nice to have good friends to have a laugh with. Even if it's doing cutesy asian girl poses in public after one drink too many.

Thanks Universe, for introducing us to us!

Friday, November 6, 2009

Woohoo!

Dear Universe,

I'm counting down to 2010 already. Just cos I know it's going to be fab.

XOXO :-D

Sunday, November 1, 2009

It's been awhile

May we always get to choose the paths we want to walk, and the people we want by our side.
:-)

Wednesday, October 21, 2009

It's Really Simple

Dear Universe,

Let us remember that all we need is to do is visualise how we'd like things to be, and have faith that everything will take care of itself and fall into place.

Happiness, joy, laughter, love, money, health, travel.. Let us have an abundance of all these :)


Thanks! xoxo

Friday, October 16, 2009

For a dear friend getting a bum rap

Dear Universe,

AL's getting the run around by crappy people who don't give a poop. Please give him a way out of this hell hole, and may karma come to those who so deserve it. Thanks.

XOXOXO + XOXOXO

Saturday, October 10, 2009

Hope for the next

Dear Universe,

Please give us hope for always, that we not be afraid of the unknown. Let that which hurts us, make us stronger. God bless.

Thanks
XOXOXO

Friday, October 9, 2009

LOTR!

Dear Universe,

Let us successfully complete watching all three LOTR movies today :D

xoxo

Oops

ok we don't have a blog stalker. My bad.

Wednesday, October 7, 2009

Blog Stalker!

Who is this mystery follower we have! Own up please!

Not that we object to having fans but JUST TELL US WHO YOU ARE.

Having An Attitude Of Gratitude

Dear Universe,

I'm pinching this phrase in my subject header from Anthea. Here's something I thought was really nice and worth sharing, grabbed from http://www.chookooloonks.com/blog/2009/10/1/love-thursday-everyday-joy.html.

1. Living a joyful life is not about living your life 24/7 in a happy state of mind. She says, and I think she's correct, that being happy all the time would be like living with a constant floodlight in your face -- ultimately annoying and downright exhausting. Instead, she says, living a joyful life is sort of similar to following the path along a string of twinkle lights -- that really, a joyful life is simply a series of happy moments, and that the trick to living a joyful life is being gratefully in the moment when you are experiencing a happy time; and then, when you're experiencing a down time (the space between the first twinkle light and the next), you live in the present knowledge that the down time, too, shall pass, and another happy moment is just around the corner. Also,

2. Joy and gratitude are inextricably intertwined -- true joy is impossible without gratitude.


..

Let us remember to always have an attitude of gratitude.

xoxo

For the joys I have, let me share

Dear Universe,

Let my friends share the joy that I am feeling now - that they may be as blessed as I have been this past week. Pretty please ... over and out!

Bon's a genius

Dear Universe,

Let everything fall into place for me. I reckon you've heard me yammer enough the past 2 years and may be sick of me going on and on. So no need to repeat la :-P.

Thanks!

XOXO
It's been awhile since I cared to ask about work.

So erm please please help me finish all my crap before I go to Daramsala.

THANKS!

XOXO

Newbie On Board

Welcome Carol!

Wish for good things. For everyone hor. 

Saturday, September 26, 2009

Dear Universe,

Sometimes we can't help but feel scattered, unsure of what we want and what to do. At times like this, please give us focus and clarity of mind, so that we are able to see things for what they really are and make decisions that are good for us. Actually, just let us be able to make decisions that are good for us no matter what, the clarity can come later. Lol.

Thanks :)

xoxo

Wednesday, September 16, 2009

What's green and big and angry?

When we look into our confused selves, we often retreat outwards. Out of fear, of denial, perhaps shame. Are we really such howling messes? It can't be. Not happy, shiny us! So we continue running in circles around ourselves, hoping to keep it together, hoping it'll pass, hoping noone sees.

But at some point, you kinda have to sit still. Let it out, show your inner Hulk (or any random tormented superhero you think you are). Let whatever colours you really have in you shine. And so what if you're green and not following the rules?

So. Am going to stop running in circles. I'm not sure where to go next. In squares? But that's ok. Cos must learn to sit still mah. Allow my inner Phoenix to come out. Hopefully I don't commit genocide like the actual Phoenix did.

Dear Universe, Just one wish (for me and Bon). That whatever decision we make, it will always turn out well. And that everyone stays happy and healthy and full of joy.

Sunday, September 13, 2009

oops

Dear Universe,
Please remind me to pay my bills on time. Heh.
Thanks!
XOXO

Thursday, September 10, 2009

Dear Universe, Thanks for reminding us that pain is temporary.

Friday, September 4, 2009

it's uncanny

Dear Universe,

Bon's asked for me to blog our msn conversation. So in a nutshell, she's totally repeating the same things I said last year. Sometimes verbatim. This means she is repeating my life in 2008 and will hence have a damn good time travelling and erm shagging that boy. However this also MAY mean that she's going to repeat whatever I do henceforth. So much for life bringing surprises. So now she has even more incentive to make my life stupendously amazing.

So please, seriously. A stupendously amazing life. With stupendously amazing men (one each, or if Bon wants more than one, er she can ask you), stupendously amazing travels (even more stupendous than now), stupendously amazing people to hang out with, stupendously amazing happiness and love in our lives, stupendously amazing families (which they are), stupendously amazing houses, stupendously amazing friends, stupendously amazing foods, stupendously amazing work that we find easy to do (if we choose to work). All in all, stupendously amazing abundance, so we'd be ridiculously happy.

Thanks! XOXO

Wishes That Will Come True

Hi Mr. Universe,

I ever wished my friends will have great sex and it came true. Thank you so much coz my friend is so happy now.

I wish:-
1) Wendy will have better memory
2) Edward will get his promotion and earn lots of money so that I can semi-retire in 2 years time
3) My brother and sister-in-law will be happy
4) All my friends' wishes WILL COME TRUE
5) My God-ma's daughter will have a happy marriage

Mr. Universe has been very kind to me

Dear Mr. Universe,

1) I thank you for letting me laugh out loud anytime of the day n nite
2) I thank you for my parents' and siblings' good health
3) I thank you for my bf's good career (he won an award!)
4) I thank you for giving me so many good friends around me. I know they will be there when I need them
5) I thank you for my good health n great body heehee (ok lah not too bad, front and back also have)
6) I thank you for the greatest invention, MSN. Keeps me in touch with my family and friends
7) I thank you for a super loving, considerate boyfriend who is good in playing chinese chess, Hong Eng aka Edward.
8) I thank you for my stylo hair. I love it!!
9) I thank you for a non-micro-manage boss I have in NCS
10) Last but not least, I thank you for EVERYTHING. I'm really very happy with what I have now.

Wednesday, September 2, 2009

Bad memory

Dear Universe,

Betty asked me to ask for something.... but I forgot. But whatever we wished for at the airport. Please make it come true....

Hmm what was it?

Dear Universe, please give me a better memory. LOL

XOXO

Tuesday, September 1, 2009

Dear Universe,

Since Bon's life reflects mine, and my life reflects Betty's, please give us good ones.

XOXO.

No Matter What

Dear Universe,

So we may look like we've been hit by the stupid stick and are doing lots of stuff that just does not make sense now, but let everything work out for the best. And let us enjoy the ride while we're at it.

Please give me and everyone around me an abundance of love, joy, laughter, happiness, peace, calm, passion, travel, money, good health, and great mind-blowing sex.

Thanks!

xoxo

And For Me

I feel the storm passing within. Thank you. I know you were there.

I'm Feeling Generous

ok I think I've had enough of mocking la.

Dear Universe. Please give Ben some brains. I mean really.

Monday, August 31, 2009

When Your Ex Makes Out With A Ladyboy

HAHAHAHAA!

Dear Universe, thanks much for helping me get a divorce.

I mean really.

XOXO

Saturday, August 29, 2009

Dear Universe,

Yes no more splits around us. Everyone deserves to be happy.

XOXO.

Friday, August 28, 2009

Greeeeeeeeeeece

Dear Universe,

Thank you so much for making my dream come true....to become a Spartan for 2 weeks!! YAY!!!

lala...lalala...la..la..lalal.....

No More Divorces Around Me

Dear Universe,

I wish there will be no more divorces around me especially my brother and sister in law. I hope they will fall in love with each other again coz I love them very much....

p/s For those who have found love, don't forget to make Indian cuisine for me ya LOL. I love all my friends coz they are damn good cook muahahahhahahahha

Thursday, August 27, 2009

Some Focus Please

Dear Universe,

It's deja vu and I'm saying all the things that LGG was saying at this time last year. Anyways, I hope this scattered and unfocused feeling passes soon, and I will figure out what it is that I want to do. Don't let me be stupid for too long, ok?

Thanks! xoxo

Monday, August 24, 2009

Blur la

Dear Universe,
I'd like to learn how to ask for things more wisely and specifically. So you have less work to do lol.
Thanks. XOXO.

Wednesday, August 19, 2009

With Passion

With passion pray.
With passion work.
With passion make love.
With passion eat and drink and dance and play.
Why look like a dead fish
in this ocean of God?

Rumi

Thursday, August 13, 2009

ZSQY-ness

Dear Universe,
Let us always have the opportunity to accuse each other of ZSQY-ness. Cos it is damn funny.
XOXO.

Wednesday, August 12, 2009

Aug babies galore

Happy Birthday Bets and Ching.

May all your wishes come to fruition. Especially those including Bon & I. LOL.

XOXO

It's vanity but....

Dear universe,

I want the hair on my head to be ebony black. Without having to dye it - very troublesome.

Thanks!

XOXO.

Tuesday, August 11, 2009

I think it's working

Good mood's creeping up already. LOL.

Thanks!

Monday, August 10, 2009

I oso waaaaaaaaaaaant

Dear Universe,

Put me in a good mood like Bon's and Bets'.

Hehehehe.

Thanks

XOXO

In A Good Mood

Dear Universe

I'm in a good mood, and I don't know why. Doesn't really matter anyway. Thanks for the good mood today and for many more to come! :D

xoxo

Sunday, July 26, 2009

I am good.

Oh and btw, hehehe I made vegetarian mapo tofu.

Go me! Am a culinary genius. Thanks to you. Heh.

Yippie!

Dear Universe

Sometimes all it takes is a bit of patience, but yaaaaaay my drought is over and I'm so so so so glad that you took Bet's first entry into account. Hehehehahahahaa.

Thank you for wonderful friends, for travel opportunities and for lots of fun and laughter in our lives.

xoxo

Sniffle Sniffle

I am ill.

But it's alright. Haven't been down with anything since 2007 and it is rather interesting to feel all weak and weary. I was looked after by a bumbling bull in a china shop, who fed me the wrong foods (spiced beans and durian during a fever, cough and flu may work in an Indian household, but perhaps our delicate chinese stomachs need plain porridge and soy sauce lol) and gave me little rest.

Well my dear universe, I don't need your help to get well. My body's army of white blood cells are standing in attention and are aiding me as I type. And all that Vit C!

What I do need help with is the bull, who can maim with his thoughtless kindness. Give me a sign, maybe another sign (apologies if I missed it. I can be so dense). That what I'm doing is right.

Thanks much.
XOXO

Friday, July 24, 2009

Draught is O.V.E.R!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Yaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay!

Thank you so much, Universe. For Bon's dry spell is over. A ONS in staid, prim Bangalore no less. Wah! Am very impressed. Have no details, but I hope it was some Bollywood actor.

Sunday, July 19, 2009

Attractions

Joy attracts more joy
Happiness attracts more happiness
Peace attracts more peace
Gratitude attracts more gratitude
Kindness attracts more kindness
Love attracts more loveeeeee

Monday, July 13, 2009

Some Self Praise

I love how we try. How we tell ourselves things will go my way. Good on us! *pats self and the rest on back*

Friday, July 10, 2009

Thank You Mr. Sweet Universe

Hi Mr. Sweet Universe,

Super-duper thank you for:-

1) My Edward, coz he adores me so much
2) Winning my little battle with my ex-husband
3) My 3 very positive friends, Ching, Wen & Bon. Naturally, I became positive too!
4) My parents' good health
5) My job coz I got less emails and numbers still flowing in .YAY!
6) My boss, who doesn't mind we go for 3 hours lunch and tea break everyday
7) My godmummy, Daphne who buys me magazinessss every month
8) My good health, no more migraines
9) My pet, Spot who takes care of my parents' house and being a really obedient dog
10) My Pocky who brings Edward and I even closer each day

I don't know how to tell you how grateful I am....but I AM VERY GRATEFUL. Thank you for trusting me and always there for me. Love you, Mr. Sweet Universe.

Tuesday, July 7, 2009

To My Dearest Universe

Dear Universe,

By July 2009, I wish to settle my matrimonial maintenance with my ex-husband amicably. Please let me receive a 5-years lump sum of maintenance from my ex-husband by Aug 2009.

Thank you very much, Universe.

Tuesday, June 30, 2009

thank you

for giving me the gift of making good guacamole.

Monday, June 29, 2009

And we're being thankful today

hehehehe.
Since Bon's posting her stuff.... here is mine for today. Thank you Universe,
(1) For giving me a stomach which can ingest anything from anywhere, without feeling ill effects.
(2) For giving me a brother who doesn't mind fetching me and my pals from the airport in the middle of the night, even when we smell bad LOL
(3) For my job and boss, both of whom allow me to do whatever I please, whenever I please.
(4) For always being around this year, to give comfort, to question and challenge my decisions, to help.
(5) For my maid, cos she cleans my clothes
(6) For creating ribena and yakult

Sunday, June 28, 2009

10 Things I Am Grateful For

Wrote this in the morning when I woke up and decided to cross post it here.

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So here are 10 things I'm grateful for. Big and small.

1. My blanket. Love how it keeps me warm when I'm cold. I'm all wrapped up now. Hehehe.

2. My wifi enabled phone. Having wifi was one of the things I insisted on when I was shopping for a phone. Didn't use it much initially, but am using it much more now.

3. Good food in my life. Singapore is really a glutton's paradise and I love being able to eat such a variety of food. Slurp. And having family and friends who cook well too? Best.

4. A roof over my head. A place to call home.

5. A close knit family. I know a lot of people aren't very close to their families but I'm so so so so so thankful that I am. And it's not just my immediate family, but extended family like aunties, uncles and cousins.

6. Wonderful traveling companions. It's not easy to find people that you enjoy traveling with, and I think it's amazing how good a time the 4 of us have when we travel together. It helps that we're all pretty easy going (read: lazy) and don't fluster easily. Lots of laughter on our trips.

7. My camera. Sosososo glad I brought my camera on this trip, otherwise we'd have no pictures. Lol. Plus I never have to worry about charging my batteries since it's powered by AA batteries.

8. A job I'm happy at with a boss I like and respect. Sure, my boss is leaving but I'm glad I had the opportunity to find out what it's like to work under a good boss.

9. Free accommodation in NY if I go in the next three years! One good thing that came out of my boss' resignation. Lol. I'll save a bomb!

10. Wanderlust. Notice how there's an exclamation point only in the item about an upcoming trip? Lol. I'm glad I am curious enough to want to see the world, and that I have the means to.

Practice for the New Millennium by the Dalai Lama

The Practice:
1. Spend 5 minutes at the beginning of each day rememberingwe all want the same things (to be happy and be loved)and we are all connected to one another.
2. Spend 5 minutes breathing in, cherishing yourself; and, breathing outcherishing others. If you think about people you have difficulty cherishing,extend your cherishing to them anyway.
3. During the day extend that attitude to everyone you meet. Practice cherishing the "simplest" person (clerks, attendants, etc)or people you dislike.
4. Continue this practice no matter what happens or what anyone does to you. These thoughts are very simple, inspiring and helpful. The practice of cherishing can be taken very deeply if done wordlessly, allowing yourself to feel the love and appreciation thatalready exists in your heart.

Daily Necessities : Tips & pointers for building a spiritual life from scratch

Pray
Meditate
Be aware/Stay awake
Bow
Practise yoga
Feel
Chant and sing
Breathe and smile
Relax/Enjoy/Laugh/Play
Create/Envision
Let Go/Forgive/Accept
Walk/Exercise/Move
Work/Serve/Contribute
Listen/Learn/Enquire
Consider/Reflect
Cultivate oneself/Enhance competencies
Cultivate contentment
Cultivate flexibility
Cultivate friendship and collaboration
Lighten up
Celebrate and appreciate
Dream
Give thanks
Evolve
Love
Share/Give/Receive
Walk softly/Live gently
Expand/Radiate/Dissolve
Simplify
Surrender/Trust
Be born anew

from Awakening The Buddha Within by Lama Surya Das

Sunday, June 14, 2009

My Ten Things in my life partner - Man that wasn't so easy

(1) We are sexually compatible and find each other physically desirable, have tonnes of lasting chemistry, romance, tenderness and passion.

(2) We connect spiritually, emotionally, mentally and physically. Our bond is strong and stable and grows closer and better every day.

(3) He is successful in his field or career and financially stable and prosperous. He has an abundance of $, is more than able to support me and he is generous and willing to do so.

(4) He is ambitious (not necessarily career-wise but life-wise), and is always able to get what he wants but recognises the fact that life is more than just work, and he needs to spend time cultivating important things like his relationship with me.

(5) Willing to share his life with me and share my life in return. His friends and family become mine and vice versa. We will have an approving and supportive network and are surrounded by love.

(6) He is healthy and hygenic (very important ok) and has good clean habits and lifestyle.

(7) Faithful, honest and unwavering, open and sharing with me.

(8) Loves me deeply and I love him in in return (Good one Bon!)

(9) I respect him and his intellect and ideas and find him interesting and amusing. And he does me.

(10) Desires to travel, is a seasoned traveller and a compatible travelling companion for me.

So I Can Have Sex Soon

Dear Universe,

Here is the condensed list of 10 attributes for my next boyfriend. Please send someone to me soon. Lol.

1. Someone who is sexually compatible with me and good in bed.
2. Someone who is intelligent and I can have interesting conversations with.
3. Someone who is honest and faithful and who I can trust.
4. Someone who is funny and who makes me laugh.
5. Someone who has a stable job and high income.
6. Someone who loves me and who I will love.
7. Someone who enjoys traveling and is a good traveling companion.
8. Someone who has a positive attitude in life.
9. Someone who is good looking.
10. Someone who gets along with my family and friends.


Thanks! xoxo

Thanks for the mountain huts

And for Betty being mega efficient lol.

New era, new communication for Ching

Dear Universe

I am writing my very first blog, I believe that through this blog you will answer all my desires. My first wish : May all my buddies stay in good health, immortal beauty, live in harmony and wisdom.

Qing

Hmm I jumped the gun

ok wait. She has not blogged yet. But it is on the way.

So I am a genius anyway!

Woo I am Genius

i just got Ching to blog leh.

I am genius. Which I already know.
I will feel infinite joy and love.

Monday, June 8, 2009

Dear Universe,

There are days when things go slightly awry, and suddenly you're in a zone where colours of the day seem bleak once more.

Well, thanks for reminding me it's not real, and will pass.

XOXO

Sunday, June 7, 2009

Comin Round The Mountain

Please give us rooms on Mt Kinabalu. So we can climb it and Bets can show off her vid cam skills.

Thanks much!

In The Pink

Dear Universe,

Give us good health. Stupendously, amazingly great health. That we look extremely good.

That erm, we only go to doctors when we are lazy and want mcs.

LOL.

Gratitute

Hi Bon, Ching and Wen,

Write 10 things you are grateful for each day.

*silva'g*

All Good is coming to me today.

All my desires will be met today.

Magic and miracles will follow me everywhere today.

p/s start having good thoughts if you haven't, coz I've heeheeheeeeeeeee

3 Steps to our SUCCESS

Think good thoughts (eg. All my friends will be RICH soon)

Speak good words (eg. All my friends will find love soon)

Take good actions (eg. All my friends will go to Mount Kinabalu soon yippeeeeeeeeee)

I want all my friends to become RICHER and RICHER

If you want to attract MORE money, make lists of the things you will buy with the money. Surround yourself with pictures of the things you would like and always feel the feelings of having those things NOW.

Oh yeah, please also imagine those things with ME in the picture LOL. The rule of thumb - SHARING mah.

Start CREATING!!!

Mine :- Nice houses, nice cars, nice watches and nice holidays with Edward and my friends

Luv,
Bets

Wednesday, June 3, 2009

WOOHOOO!!!!!!!!!

Holiday soon! Yay!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Tuesday, June 2, 2009

Yes, Happiness Please

Oh yes, dear universe. Please let all the people around us be happy, so that we are happy

Great Sex For All

I wish all my friends will have the greatessssst sex from now onwards

woo-hooooooo yeeeeeeeppie yabba-dabba doooooo

Bets

p/s oh yeah, separately pls

Thanks!!

Hmm some gratitude is in order.....

Thanks for helping me settle the erm settlement with my ex.

WOOHOO!

Surrounded By Happiness

Dear Universe,

Let us be surrounded by lightness and laughter, abundance and love.

No negativity, cos gives us headaches.

Thanks!

XOXO

Monday, May 4, 2009

Jobs That Require Travel For Nothing

Dear Universe,

This is for both Bon and I. we'd like to have jobs which require travelling for no particular business reason, to exotic locales of our choosing, paying us a lot of money (well more than what we're getting now), with flexible schedules, easy work and nice people to work with and for.

Sunday, April 26, 2009










So we can buy islands and name them after ourselves







slurp










Tuesday, April 21, 2009

And For Once, Something About Work

Dear Universe,

My work and job gets easier and easier day by day. Everything gets done effortlessly, and my colleagues, bosses, vendors and business partners are all cooperative and amazingly hardworking and forward-thinking and efficient.

Thanks much.

XOXO

Monday, April 13, 2009

Something Quite Easy To Do

Dear Universe,

There are times when I think I need to ask for stuff, but then nothing comes out of my brain. Perhaps I think of stuff that's too convoluted. So I have one wish tonight.

3 months from now I will be free from Ben, and he will accede to all my requests.

XOXO.

The Vision Board Series - Living Room


A stylish and comfortable living room in my home with wall-to-wall shelves and lots of good books. Bright and airy- a haven for me to relax in.
dear universe,

my work will magically be finished this week. All my freakin rfps, and budgets and timelines.

XOXO

Sunday, April 12, 2009

The Vision Board Series - Kitchen



Designer kitchen in my home where I will prepare delicious and healthy meals.

Reclaiming Normal Working Hours

Dear Universe,

Thanks for providing a job that I've been enjoying so far. Please make my working hours go back to normal and I can actually leave at 5.45pm every day so I can go socialise with Wen.

xoxo

Projects

Dear Universe,

Please help me succeed in whatever project I set out to do. And give me fair warning when I decide on dumb projects.

Thanks!

Heheheee

Wednesday, April 8, 2009

Heheheeeeee

Dear Universe,



Please make Bon more sociable and less busy so we can meet more men.

Monday, April 6, 2009

One More Day!!!

Dear Universe

Please let everything go smoothly tomorrow and that everything will be settled amicably.

Sunday, April 5, 2009

A bit of self praise.

I am a really good writer. I mean really. I just read my old blog articles.

Dear universe,

I hope my words will always be able to sway and convince people I write to. Cos I always make sense mah.

Relearning

There are days (many of them actually) when I forget how the universe really just gives me what I ask for. Whatever is within it's control, which probably means most things.

I just have to learn how to ask for things I really want.

LOL.

Knock knock

Please remind Bon and I of your existence once in awhile.

So we can make demands of you LOL.

Wednesday, February 25, 2009

Exorcising Psychos From Your Life

Dear Universe, Please surround me with only nice, helpful, hardworking people at work. Like Cheryl. Who know what they're doing, and don't have any agenda other than what they say.

Thanks!

XOXO

Monday, February 23, 2009

Thank You Universe!

I wrote that I will have a good day and *poof* my boss was asked to conduct some interviews. WOOHOO!

With Less Than 2 Weeks To Go

My event will run smoothly and everyone I work with will be co-operative. All the sessions will be filled (no need to overflow- just have enough people to fill the rooms can already) and everyone will be happy and enjoy themselves. My bosses and colleagues will think the event was a HUGE success and realise that I am talented and brilliant, just like what the Leaf Guy said.

Sunday, February 22, 2009

wahahahaa

ok by some miracle I seem to be done with most of my work.

lol.

This blog works as well as the notebook! *see my first entry*

Thursday, February 19, 2009

Happiness Redux

Wah. Starting with an appropriate entry on happiness eh?

Ok. My entry on 2nd Jan 2009 said:

Everyone I know and care about will find love, joy & happiness this year.

It also says P.S. Scuba Bunny's birthday is Oct 7. (Because she is a present-whore and wants me to remember to buy her something)

It also says P.P.S. Oi, my wish includes me hor.

Happiness

I believe Wen has a similar entry in her notebook- but I thought it'd be good to start with a blog entry wishing everyone happiness. So copying this out from my notebook, from an entry dated 5 January 2009:

Everyone I know and care about will find true happiness and contentment this year. There will be much joy and laughter in my life and in the lives of the people around me. I will make a positive impact in the lives of the people that I love and care about.

And of course, this image is very apt. It's my current wallpaper, haha.

How To Be Happy

My CEO Should Thank My Purple Notebook

Dear Universe,

My CEO thanked us for great registration numbers yesterday. What he should have said was, "Thank you, LGG's little purple notebook." Because I wrote on 16 Jan, when numbers were, erm dismal, that we'd get to X number. Was having an off-day, and decided to care about work.

Now all I need is for all the rest of my work to be magically finished by today, so I can go to Que Pasa for wine & frilly cheese tomorrow in peace.

XOXO